The Gentleness and Kindness of Christ

Now I, Paul, appeal to you with the gentleness and kindness of Christ—though I realise you think I am timid in person and bold only when I write from far away. Well, I am begging you now so that when I come I won’t have to be bold with those who think we act from human motives.”
2 Corinthians 10:1-2 NLT

The Corinthians apparently thought that Paul was “timid in person and bold only when” he wrote to them. Perhaps they gained that impression because all the good work straightening out the Corinthians’ faith and behaviour was achieved by the two letters, so perhaps when Paul eventually travelled there, there was nothing left for him to be “bold” about. He could then be more pastoral and display the “gentleness and kindness of Christ” in a way that suited both the congregation and him. 

But before we look further into Paul’s next visit to Corinth, and to put the situation into context, Paul had previously been in Ephesus, establishing a church there, and he stayed for a couple of years, holding daily discussions in the lecture hall of Tyrannus. In Acts 19:11-12, we read that “God gave Paul the power to perform unusual miracles. When handkerchiefs or aprons that had merely touched his skin were placed on sick people, they were healed of their diseases, and evil spirits were expelled”. As a result, “… A solemn fear descended on the city, and the name of the Lord Jesus was greatly honoured” (Acts 19:17b).  But a man called Demetrius stirred up trouble because he feared his business venture making silver idols would soon be in decline because of Paul’s preaching. He instigated a riot, and it was only when a wise official intervened that it calmed. We then turn the page to Acts 20, and read, “When the uproar was over, Paul sent for the believers and encouraged them. Then he said goodbye and left for Macedonia. While there, he encouraged the believers in all the towns he passed through. Then he travelled down to Greece”. Going back to the origins of the Corinthian church, in Acts 18 we learn that Paul established the church, meeting in the home of Titius Justus, next door to the Jewish synagogue, and that he stayed there for 18 months, “teaching the Word of God”. Paul then apparently made a “painful visit” at some time between writing the two letters, which we can infer from 2 Corinthians 2:1, so after the second letter had been delivered, here was Paul making a third visit “where he stayed for three months …” (Acts 20:3a). So the Corinthians would have soon found out if Paul was a timid or bold man.

That Jesus was a gentle Man was indisputable. The saying, “Gentle Jesus, meek and mild,” comes from a Charles Wesley hymn written in 1767 and captures that side of His character, appealing to a little child. In the Buble, we read the verses in Matthew 11:28-30 and see God’s heart coming through His gracious words, “Then Jesus said, “Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you. Let me teach you, because I am humble and gentle at heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy to bear, and the burden I give you is light””. Isaiah prophesied about the gentleness of the coming Messiah, “He will feed his flock like a shepherd. He will carry the lambs in his arms, holding them close to his heart. He will gently lead the mother sheep with their young” (Isaiah 40:11). What a picture of God’s love, so carefully looking after His flock, the people who follow Him, and with such gentleness. That was Jesus. But isn’t it so sad that so many of His people, especially those of a more liberal persuasion, push Him away because of some misunderstanding over the validity of scripture? And then there are so many people who don’t believe in Him at all, even denying that He exists. But the picture remains of the Good Shepherd, “humble and gentle at heart”. That’s my Lord!

“He saved us … because of His mercy”

We know how kind Jesus must have been because of what He did for us by coming to this world. Who can ever get their minds around the fact that the Creator of the Universe would humble Himself to the extent that He cast aside His eternal life in Heaven, and instead took on the form of a man, born a baby in very humble circumstances, growing up as a normal Jewish boy and ministering as a travelling rabbi, before suffering a cruel death at the hands of the people He came to save? No other religion can claim anything even close to the kindness of the real and true God we follow and worship. Paul wrote about this kindness of Christ in Ephesians 2:7, “So God can point to us in all future ages as examples of the incredible wealth of his grace and kindness toward us, as shown in all he has done for us who are united with Christ Jesus”, and in Titus 3:4-5, “… When God our Saviour revealed his kindness and love, he saved us, not because of the righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy. He washed away our sins, giving us a new birth and new life through the Holy Spirit”. 

Paul appealed to the Corinthians with the “gentleness and kindness of Christ“. He could, of course, confront sin when it was necessary, and he did, as we read his first letter. And I’m sure the confrontation continued during his “painful” visit between the letters. But on his third visit and during his three-month stay, I’m sure Paul presented the attitude of an under-shepherd, following in his Master’s footsteps with the “gentleness and kindness of Christ“. We pilgrims, too, must have such an attitude. There are times when our blood starts to boil as we observe the injustices that believers suffer in this world. But then we turn to Jesus, and I can just imagine Him smiling as He assures us that He has all under control. He will sort out the rights and wrongs of a situation. He will bring judgement at just the right time. But in the meantime, all we have to do is extend the “gentleness and kindness of Christ” to those around us. Like Paul, we too are under shepherds, following in our Shepherd’s sure and unwavering footsteps. And as we bring the concerns, worries, and cares in this life to Jesus, His peace will flood over us, What a wonderful Lord nd Saviour He is!

Dear Lord Jesus. You told us to take upon us Your yoke, and we will find rest for our souls. Thank You for Your peace and love, so precious and yet so freely given. Amen.

Last Moments

“Jesus replied, “All who love me will do what I say. My Father will love them, and we will come and make our home with each of them. Anyone who doesn’t love me will not obey me. And remember, my words are not my own. What I am telling you is from the Father who sent me. I am telling you these things now while I am still with you.”
John 14:23-25 NLT

A person’s last words carry much weight and importance. Many a film has included a cameo of an old or very sick person lying in a bed during their last hours, with friends or relatives hanging onto their every word, especially if these are few and far between, and their inheritance is at stake. But this scenario didn’t apply with Jesus. In His last hours He was fit and well, and He had much to say to His disciples. The shadow of the Cross was becoming shorter and He must have been feeling many emotions. Of course, the ever present thought of the pain and humiliation ahead of Him must have been uppermost in His mind.  Jesus would also have been looking forward to the joy of returning to His Heavenly home and being with His Father once again. But His primary concerns were for His disciples. How would they cope without Him? And it is true that they would have had no chance except for the Gift coming their way, the Holy Spirit. But in this interlude bounded by the Last Supper, and a few hours later, His arrest, Jesus had much to say to His friends. As we have already read, Jesus reassured them, “No, I will not abandon you as orphans—I will come to you. Soon the world will no longer see me, but you will see me. Since I live, you also will live” (John 14:18-19). 

As a preface, Jesus told His disciples that the information He was making available to them was not something He was arbitrarily making up – His words originated with Father God Himself. In other words, what He was telling them could not have been more important. And He emphasised the significance of love and obedience, primary requirements in their relationship with Jesus that would underpin their future life without Him. 

We pilgrims are modern day disciples of Jesus; His teachings still apply today and will continue to do so until the end of time. So everything we are about, doing and thinking, must be conformant with the need to love Jesus and diligently be obedient to all His commands. But this is not a legalistic demand. There is no law or rule about loving God that can be quantified and applied. Such love comes out of a relationship with Jesus that motivates and guides us through all we do and say. And that love will define our obedience to His commands. Paul taught in Ephesians 4:21-24, “Since you have heard about Jesus and have learned the truth that comes from him, throw off your old sinful nature and your former way of life, which is corrupted by lust and deception. Instead, let the Spirit renew your thoughts and attitudes. Put on your new nature, created to be like God—truly righteous and holy“. Love and obedience to Jesus can only come from a new birth experience.

Thankfully, we have the Holy Spirit living within us. Without Him and His truthful guidance, we would be incapable of living in the way Jesus demands. In Matthew 11:29-30, Jesus said, “Take my yoke upon you. Let me teach you, because I am humble and gentle at heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy to bear, and the burden I give you is light“. Living the Jesus way, infiltrated with love and obedience, somehow puts us into a zone of Kingdom compliance that is surprisingly not nearly as hard as some make out. In Acts 26:14b, we read what Jesus said to Paul on the Damascus Road,“Saul, Saul, why are you persecuting me? It is useless for you to fight against my will“. Paul had to come to the point where he totally abandoned his old self and way of living, and instead became a true believer living in the way of love and obedience to Jesus. And so it must be with us pilgrims, as we once again consider the last words of Jesus.

Dear Lord Jesus. We celebrate, because You are alive today. Thank You for Your love. Amen.