“Turn to me and have mercy, for I am alone and in deep distress. My problems go from bad to worse. Oh, save me from them all! Feel my pain and see my trouble. Forgive all my sins.”
Psalm 25:16-18 NLT
David called out to the Lord to “feel [his] pain”. David highlights in the previous verses in this Psalm the hassles from his enemies, and potentially wrong responses (“disgrace comes to those who try to deceive others” – verse 3), but he then goes on to remind God about His “compassion and unfailing love“, His mercy, His goodness and righteousness, and that He is “a friend to those who fear Him”. But all this was a build up to what was really bothering David and he cried out to the Lord – “Turn to me and have mercy”. An impassioned cry for help as he found himself in deep trouble facing insurmountable problems. He ends up asking God to empathise with him, feeling his pain and seeing his trouble. Have we ever been in a place like that?
Human beings were never created to be lonely, devoid of companionship and love. Such a person never appeared in God’s plan for humanity. Adam never chose a wife because God chose one for him, saying “it is not good for man to be alone”, and that relationship ticked all the boxes that were in God’s blueprint for His children. But sin has distorted and destroyed relationships everywhere, leaving people universally devoid of anyone prepared and willing to take an interest in them and empathise with them in their troubles. Thankfully Jesus came as a remedy for man’s sin, and restored the order that God intended. So in our fellowships, and with other believers, we care for one another. Paul wrote, “Be happy with those who are happy, and weep with those who weep” (Romans 12:15), a verse that encourages relationships that are selfless and loving. Peter wrote in similar vein, “Finally, all of you should be of one mind. Sympathize with each other. Love each other as brothers and sisters. Be tenderhearted, and keep a humble attitude” (1 Peter 3:8). This is God’s blueprint for His children, believers everywhere. David cried out to God to “feel [his] pain” but we New Covenant believers have a wonderful God who has experienced what we have experienced. Hebrews 4:15, “This High Priest of ours understands our weaknesses, for he faced all of the same testings we do, yet he did not sin”. Jesus has gone before us and has shown us the way. Look at His love for His disciples, as He knelt before them, washing their feet. And He loves us just as much as well.
We pilgrims may be going through a painful experience at the moment. It could be the death of a loved one. It could be a debilitating illness. It could be a financial emergency. But whatever it is, there is One who feels our pain. One who died for us that we might have life, both in this world and the next. And if we know someone who is going through such experiences we must get alongside them and feel their pain as well. The old Apostle John wrote, “We know what real love is because Jesus gave up his life for us. So we also ought to give up our lives for our brothers and sisters. If someone has enough money to live well and sees a brother or sister in need but shows no compassion—how can God’s love be in that person?” (1 John 3:16-17). Jesus promised that He would always be with us and we can feel Him close especially in times of need. When He left this world, He sent the Holy Spirit, who now lives within every believer, and in His love and compassion He will even send His spirit in human form, as another believer gets alongside us. Jesus knows and understands our pain because He has been there, and so when troubles strike, we have a Comforter who “feels [our] pain”. We relax in His love and feel it as a cloak smothering us, and compassionately dealing with our pain. The problems may never go away or reduce in intensity, but with Jesus along side of us, they will never be as bad.
Dear Father God. You know and understand that our lives can sometimes be painful in a world blighted by sin and evil. But You have a remedy for all our pain and we reach out to You once again, basking in Your love and compassion. Thank You. Amen.
