The Source of True Comfort in Christian Life

“For when we came into Macedonia, we had no rest, but we were harassed at every turn – conflicts on the outside, fears within. But God, who comforts the downcast, comforted us by the coming of Titus, and not only by his coming but also by the comfort you had given him. He told us about your longing for me, your deep sorrow, your ardent concern for me, so that my joy was greater than ever.”
2 Corinthians 7:5-7 NIVUK

Three mentions of the word “comfort” in our verses today. Paul had already shared about being harassed and conflicted, with “fears within”, and he was obviously feeling pretty depressed about it all. Sometimes we look at a spiritual giant like Paul and think that they will never suffer the troubles in life that we do. Reading Paul’s letters He seems to have such a grasp of the Christian life, even establishing much of today’s theology, that we forget he was human like everyone else and needed comfort. 

Elijah was another one. In the middle of a drought, and after the Mount Carmel event where God sent fire to consume the sacrifice and Elijah “slaughtered” the 450 prophets of Baal, we read about the drought coming to an end. But Elijah then ran into the wilderness after a threat from a woman. We read, “Elijah was afraid and ran for his life. When he came to Beersheba in Judah, he left his servant there, while he himself went a day’s journey into the wilderness. He came to a broom bush, sat down under it and prayed that he might die. ‘I have had enough, Lord,’ he said. ‘Take my life; I am no better than my ancestors’” (1 Kings 19:3-4). How could that have happened? But we read on to find that Elijah was fed by “the angel of the Lord” before his long 40-day journey to “Horeb, the mountain of God”. It was there that God restored him, giving him the comfort that he needed.

Then we have Peter, devastated and depressed after denying Jesus three times. In Luke 22:61-62, and after Peter’s third denial, we read, “The Lord turned and looked straight at Peter. Then Peter remembered the word the Lord had spoken to him: ‘Before the cock crows today, you will disown me three times.’ And he went outside and wept bitterly.” What followed was that poignant conversation with Jesus on the shores of the Sea of Galilee, after a breakfast of barbecued fish. Jesus asked Peter three times if he loved Him, one time for each of Peter’s denials, and He gave Peter the comfort and assurance to put him back on track in his mission. 

We tend to think that the men of God like Paul, Peter and Elijah were somehow supermen in the faith, far too holy to suffer from the kinds of troubles we do. We also sometimes think the same of our pastors and other church leaders, somehow putting them on pedestals set apart from ordinary folk like us. But nothing could be further from the truth. We, too, need comfort from time to time, and we enjoy our needs being met by those loved ones closest to us, but unfortunately, there are many lonely people in our societies who lack family or friends and instead suffer in silence, lacking the comfort that all human beings need. Paul wrote that he was comforted “by the coming of Titus”, his needs being met in his hour of need.

He comforts us in all our troubles

The Bible bulges with verses and passages about comfort. And they all major on the one fact that God is the source of the comfort we need. He cares for us in all circumstances. Psalm 23 is a good place to start if anyone needs to be comforted today. Read it and re-read it if necessary, and in the process, we feel the comfort of God flooding over us. We get to verse 4 and read, “Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me”. The rod and staff were the shepherd’s tools to encourage and direct the sheep before him, and as we look to our loving Heavenly Father, we will find the same willingness to keep us on the right paths, no matter what we are going through.

Of course, from our position of being comforted, we can comfort others. We read in 2 Corinthians 1:3-4, “All praise to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. God is our merciful Father and the source of all comfort. He comforts us in all our troubles so that we can comfort others. When they are troubled, we will be able to give them the same comfort God has given us”. I envisage a merry-go-round, with each believer encouraging and comforting another, while God pours His love and grace into the mix, bringing comfort to all. This is what living the wonderful Christian life is all about. So who do we know who needs comforting today?

In my walks, I often meet people who are totally devoid of the comfort they need. Depression and loneliness abound. Worry and anxiety are endemic emotions. People without God lack hope and vision for the future. But we pilgrims have a Source of comfort, and sometimes we have the opportunity to bring just a glimmer of that comfort into the lives of those we meet, wherever that is. We must never neglect an opportunity to share the “words of eternal life” that God has so graciously given us.

Dear Heavenly Father. Thank You for Your comfort and grace. Through Jesus, we have come into a favoured place, where we find Heaven on earth. Please help us to bring comfort to others whenever we can. Amen.

Troubles and Comfort

“All praise to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. God is our merciful Father and the source of all comfort. He comforts us in all our troubles so that we can comfort others. When they are troubled, we will be able to give them the same comfort God has given us.”
2 Corinthians 1:3-4 NLT

Four mentions of the word “comfort” over these two verses, so Paul must have considered it an important subject, and, making it the first thing he wrote about after his greeting, emphasised it more. The dictionary defines the word “comfort” as “a state of physical ease and freedom from pain and restraint”. In those days, being a Christian wasn’t an easy choice, particularly for those in a society hostile to the suggestion that there was a God higher and more powerful than their gods. Providing comfort to the persecuted was essential, and Paul reminded the Corinthians that God was the Source of all comfort. Another theme emerges from these two verses: the necessity for the Christian family to pull together, comforting one another in the many troubles they were experiencing. So, we have God as the Source of all comfort, providing the resources His children need to comfort one another. As Jesus taught, “ … I am giving you a new commandment: Love each other. Just as I have loved you, you should love each other” (John 13:34). John also wrote, “Dear friends, let us continue to love one another, for love comes from God. Anyone who loves is a child of God and knows God” (1 John 4:7). There is a connection between love and comfort, and they go hand in hand to help those in trouble. 

God blesses those who mourn,
for they will be comforted“.

What sort of troubles did the Corinthians experience? Early on in the Beatitudes, Jesus mentioned a big one: “God blesses those who mourn, for they will be comforted” (Matthew 5:4). As we read in Psalm 34:18, God draws close to those who are grieving after losing a loved family member or a dear friend: “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted; he rescues those whose spirits are crushed”. To such people, there is also the comfort of knowing that our believing loved ones will be in a place that Jesus called Paradise, the comfort He gave to the penitent thief on the cross. Heaven is a better place free from the troubles people face in this world, and it is a tragedy that so many of our fellow members of society have rejected eternal life there. John had a revelation about Heaven, and he wrote, “And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, ‘Look! God’s dwelling-place is now among the people, and he will dwell with them. They will be his people, and God himself will be with them and be their God. He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away’” (Revelation 21:3-4). 

Another trouble that people experience is weariness. Jesus offered an invitation in Matthew 11:28-20, “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light”. People are often carrying heavy burdens they are not designed to bear. Burdens such as the worries of bringing up a family as a single parent. Burdens such as having to work at a job that is making us anxious. Sometimes, our brothers and sisters are burdened with the cares and troubles of living, but whatever they are facing, Paul wrote something just for them: “Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfil the law of Christ” (Galatians 6:2). By so doing, Christians are providing comfort to each other. 

Jesus promised His disciples that He wouldn’t leave them as orphans after He left this world. John 14: 16, 26 (KJV), “And I will pray the Father, and he shall give you another Comforter, that he may abide with you for ever; … But the Comforter, which is the Holy Ghost, whom the Father will send in my name, he shall teach you all things, and bring all things to your remembrance, whatsoever I have said unto you”. It is an amazing truth that within each believer is a home for the Holy Spirit, and through Him we will receive all the comfort that we need. 

We pilgrims are never alone, having to experience troubles in our lives. With God with us, and close to us, we have the Source of comfort available at all times. Psalm 139:5-6, “You go before me and follow me. You place your hand of blessing on my head. Such knowledge is too wonderful for me, too great for me to understand!” and Psalm 23:6, “Surely your goodness and unfailing love will pursue me all the days of my life, and I will live in the house of the Lord forever”. Peter also wrote, “Give all your worries and cares to God, for he cares about you” (1 Peter 5:7). Repeating the verse where we started today, “God is [indeed] our merciful Father and the source of all comfort“.

Dear Father God. Thank You for caring for us. This world is a lonely and hostile place without the touch of Your gracious and loving hands. We worship You today. Amen.