We Need Each Other

“But our bodies have many parts, and God has put each part just where he wants it. How strange a body would be if it had only one part! Yes, there are many parts, but only one body. The eye can never say to the hand, “I don’t need you.” The head can’t say to the feet, “I don’t need you.””
1 Corinthians 12:18-21 NLT

Paul continues with his analogy, using the human body, with all its constituent parts, as a comparison to the body of Christ, the church. In the verses we are considering today, Paul notes the interdependence of the various parts of the human body, something that we take for granted. In fact, if most parts of the body are removed, both they and the body from which they have come will die. Take, for example, a stomach. Not a very nice and visible part of the human body, but if it is removed, then the person will die. Other parts can be removed without a terminal result, and the body will continue to live, although its capabilities will be restricted. All of this is implied in Paul’s analogy, and the same sentiments apply to our churches and fellowships today. 

Human beings need each other, whether we like it or not. We look around our congregations, seeing the diverse backgrounds, nationalities, ages, employment statuses, and all, and often wonder how such a motley crew could ever function in the way that God intends. But Paul wrote, “God has put each part just where he wants it”. Right back in Genesis 2:18, we read about God’s plan for Adam. “Then the Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper who is just right for him””. With the arrival of Eve, the basis for God’s plan for families was established. Genesis 3:20, “Then the man—Adam—named his wife Eve, because she would be the mother of all who live”. Over the page we read, “Now Adam had sexual relations with his wife, Eve, and she became pregnant. When she gave birth to Cain, she said, “With the Lord’s help, I have produced a man!” Later she gave birth to his brother and named him Abel. When they grew up, Abel became a shepherd, while Cain cultivated the ground” (Genesis 4:1-2). Families and communities are all parts of God’s plan for human beings. They can, of course, be separated from the body of people of which they are a part, but most will then suffer from loneliness, and their lives will be the poorer for it. 

Father to the fatherless, defender of widows— this is God, whose dwelling is holy. God places the lonely in families; he sets the prisoners free and gives them joy. But he makes the rebellious live in a sun-scorched land”.

Psalm 68:5-6.

From these two verses, we note some principles that apply to our churches and fellowships as well as our communities. 

Firstly, we note God’s interest in the disadvantaged, such as orphans and widows. James wrote about this in James 1:27, “Pure and genuine religion in the sight of God the Father means caring for orphans and widows in their distress and refusing to let the world corrupt you”. In our fellowships, we will have those who are on their own, and not just the widows and orphans. God’s plan is for the church to look after them, because the disadvantaged are still part of the body of Christ. 

Secondly, there are prisoners among us, and God has promised to set them free. We are, of course, all redeemed sinners, set free from the consequences of our sins by Jesus’ sacrifice at Calvary. Galatians 3:22, “But the Scriptures declare that we are all prisoners of sin, so we receive God’s promise of freedom only by believing in Jesus Christ”. But for the others still bound up by their sins, or those who are prisoners of addictions and other lifestyle choices, God will set them free with our help. And their joy will know no limits. 

Thirdly, we read that those who are rebellious and who may even leave their church or natural families will find themselves in a place where they don’t want to be, wallowing in their loneliness and misery. A “sun-scorched land” indeed. Such people may not want to be part of a family, particularly God’s family, but by leaving, they will be the poorer. After all, one day we will be in Heaven, and we are told that the souls there will be countless in number, a big family indeed!

So, in conclusion, we need each other. This is how God has designed us, and going against His design will not end well for us.

Dear Father God. Thank You for Your care and provision, particularly with respect to Your family, the church. Please help us to look out for one another at every opportunity. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

The Defender of Orphans

“Arise, O Lord! Punish the wicked, O God! Do not ignore the helpless! Why do the wicked get away with despising God? They think, “God will never call us to account.” But you see the trouble and grief they cause. You take note of it and punish them. The helpless put their trust in you. You defend the orphans.”
Psalm 10:12-14 NLT

The Psalmist wrote that wickedness, and wicked people cause “trouble and grief”, a statement that is indisputably true. We look around at the wars taking place in Ukraine and the Middle East and see the extent of misery in ordinary people’s lives reaching far beyond national borders. In our own societies we see the results of crime and violence, or drugs and addictions. Evil and wickedness is rampant. But there is one people group that is especially vulnerable and that is the orphans. There were many in David’s day, children left without parents, due to disease or some other form of premature death. And there are many in the world today. UNICEF estimates that there are over 150 million orphans, children who have lost at least one parent, in the world today but they concede that this is probably an underestimate. There are more children, trafficked, or forced to work in inhospitable places like mines, who swell the total numbers. Throughout history, there have been orphaned children, and societies have had a very poor reputation in how they deal with them. But there are four words of hope for our children in today’s verses – “You defend the orphans”. God is there for them.

But in our societies today, what does God defence of orphans look like? In James 1:27, the Apostle wrote, “Pure and genuine religion in the sight of God the Father means caring for orphans and widows in their distress and refusing to let the world corrupt you”. God’s people have a responsibility to look after orphans, pure and simple. Of course, not every believer has either the capability or resources to do so, but there are many opportunities nevertheless. Organisations such as Compassion run schemes to help child-caring projects in various parts of the world, and need financial support. Here in the UK the state has assumed responsibility for providing foster and children’s homes, as have some Christian denominations. But God, in His Word, said He will defend the orphans, so those who abuse or mistreat orphans will one day have to account for their actions before God.

In Matthew 18, Jesus said some things about children. “Then he said, “I tell you the truth, unless you turn from your sins and become like little children, you will never get into the Kingdom of Heaven. So anyone who becomes as humble as this little child is the greatest in the Kingdom of Heaven. “And anyone who welcomes a little child like this on my behalf is welcoming me. But if you cause one of these little ones who trusts in me to fall into sin, it would be better for you to have a large millstone tied around your neck and be drowned in the depths of the sea” (Matthew 18:3-6 NLT). 

We pilgrims honour and protect our children, parenting them as God desires. God is there helping us. But we also look for opportunities to help children who are not so fortunate, secure in the thought that God is there looking after them. In His heart, God has a special place for children, especially orphans.

Dear Heavenly Father, we were all children once and we can look back and see the ways that You defended us against evil and evil people. Thank You for Your care and love. Please help us too as we care for our little ones everywhere. Amen.

Spiritual Orphans Never

“No, I will not abandon you as orphans—I will come to you. Soon the world will no longer see me, but you will see me. Since I live, you also will live. When I am raised to life again, you will know that I am in my Father, and you are in me, and I am in you.”
John 14:18-20 NLT

The word “orphans”, meaning a vulnerable and parentless young person, is mentioned regularly in the Bible, and usually in the context we read in Psalm 82, “Give justice to the poor and the orphan; uphold the rights of the oppressed and the destitute” (Psalm 82:3). James 1:27 reads, “Pure and genuine religion in the sight of God the Father means caring for orphans and widows in their distress and refusing to let the world corrupt you“. In a society with a low life expectancy, it was commonplace to find a child without a parent and those more fortunate in the society were encouraged to help and support them. But orphans were abused and exploited by unscrupulous men and women, and God warned them of the consequences.

So against this backdrop, Jesus reassured His disciples that He would not abandon them “as orphans”. Jesus had been a spiritual Father to His disciples for the previous three years and they had learned so much about the Kingdom of God. This motley bunch of fishermen, a civil servant, zealots and others had seen and experienced miraculous signs and healings with the Man who claimed to be the Son of God. A Man who regularly pointed to His Father in Heaven but who also warned His friends around Him that soon He was going to leave the world and return to His home in Heaven. But Jesus was concerned for those He was going to leave behind. And the disciples would remember what Jesus had previously said about the way they would be treated, “But beware! For you will be handed over to the courts and will be flogged with whips in the synagogues. You will stand trial before governors and kings because you are my followers. But this will be your opportunity to tell the rulers and other unbelievers about me”Matthew 10:17-18). 

But in today’s verses from John 14, Jesus clearly stated to His disciples that He would soon disappear from the world around them. He could see His trial and death sentence coming, snatching Him away from His friends, but He then reassured them that He would reappear as a living person, alive once again, and soon afterwards. Although an orphan would be left hopeless and helpless by the death of their parents, Jesus promised that this would not happen to His disciples. The events of His death, resurrection and ascension into Heaven, would act as a backdrop to the first Day of Pentecost, where His disciples and others would be gifted with His presence through the Holy Spirit. They were going to be alright, He knew, and His few words of reassurance and comfort would be remembered by them over the dark days ahead.

What about us pilgrims? We have the assurance that we have a Heavenly Father who cares for us. 1 Peter 5:7, “Give all your worries and cares to God, for he cares about you”. That in itself is a reminder that we are not orphans. But we also know that Jesus is interceding for us; Romans 8:34, “Who then will condemn us? No one—for Christ Jesus died for us and was raised to life for us, and he is sitting in the place of honour at God’s right hand, pleading for us“. And we are also blessed with God’s presence through the Holy Spirit, the Gift that accompanies our Christian birth. Acts 2:38, “Peter replied, “Each of you must repent of your sins and turn to God, and be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins. Then you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit”. So we pilgrims are not spiritual orphans, regardless of our human circumstances, and never will be. Praise be to God!

Dear Father, Son and Holy Spirit. It is amazing and mind-blowing to have such a Parent. With deeply humble thanks we worship You today. Amen.

God’s Provision

“A father to the fatherless, a defender of widows, 
is God in his holy dwelling. 
God sets the lonely in families, 
He leads out the prisoners with singing; 
but the rebellious live in a sun-scorched land.
Psalms‬ ‭68:5-6‬ ‭NIVUK‬‬

In this Psalm, the author, David, puts his finger on two people groups who were social outcasts in his day. Orphans and widows. In a society without a social security safety net, these people were vulnerable to abuse and injustice. In His time spent with God up the mountain, Moses particularly highlighted and wrote about those people in his society who were in need (Deuteronomy 10:18), and David repeats the principle in these verses. The verses we are reading today declare that God would provide for the orphans and widows. In those days, begging was a common way of receiving provision, as well as the expectation that friends, neighbours and the wealthy, would show favour to those in need. But as we read from Jesus’ words in the Gospels, caring for the disadvantaged was an aspiration rather than a realisation.

Today there are still orphans and widows. But the responsibility for looking after them has shifted from members of society to the state, with the provision of benefits for those in need, or foster homes for the orphaned. Progress? Perhaps. But we still have a responsibility, as Christians, to look out for those people in our society who are disadvantaged. Being a friend to the lonely. Keeping an eye on that elderly widow lady next door, doing her shopping or cutting her grass. And through us, God will look after those in social need. But is this an aspiration rather than a realisation? It’s up to us to turn it into a reality.

But what about the prisoners? From what were they being set free? We are all prisoners of something, to a greater or lesser extent. Many things can imprison us. Lack of finance. Mental and physical illness. Disabilities. Loneliness. Abusive neighbours. Lack of education. Substance abuse. The list is endless. But David says that through God we can be set free from the incarceration we experience. We can rise above our cells of misery and want. We can look up through the bars and see our loving Heavenly Father, and be filled with a new song of joy and freedom. One of my favourite Scriptures is Isaiah 40, and the last verse reads, “but those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.” Through God we can soar into Heavenly places, elevated from our bi-dimensional existence. 

Finally, there is a sad side to these verses. The last part of verse 6 mourns the fact that those who have rebelled against God, by rejecting or ignoring Him, will have to live in a dry and hot place. Is this a prophetic muse about the time to come, when those who have rejected God will spend eternity in the place of their default choice?

But back to the message in these verses. As God’s servants on this planet we have a responsibility to look after those less fortunate than ourselves. And when we do so we too will have song in our hearts.