“Six days before the Passover celebration began, Jesus arrived in Bethany, the home of Lazarus—the man he had raised from the dead. A dinner was prepared in Jesus’ honour. Martha served, and Lazarus was among those who ate with him. Then Mary took a twelve-ounce jar of expensive perfume made from essence of nard, and she anointed Jesus’ feet with it, wiping his feet with her hair. The house was filled with the fragrance.”
John 12:1-3 NLT
Jesus was back in Bethany again, at the home of Lazarus, and his two sisters, Martha and Mary. And John recorded that there was a meal “prepared in Jesus’ honour”, served by Martha as usual. But after the meal, Mary did a strange thing. She took a jar of perfume, expensive perfume, and tipped it over Jesus’ feet. What followed was also strange – she wiped His feet with her hair. And as we might expect, it was impossible to go anywhere in the house without being able to smell the perfume.
Why did Mary do something so extravagant? Again, John wrote the account of what happened in his usual dispassionate terms, but we can imagine the consternation on the faces of those present. Perhaps Martha and Lazarus were a bit embarrassed about their sister’s behaviour. The disciples and others who were present might have been distracted from their conversations as they looked on. Women in those days were supposed to stay in the background and not bother the men with anything. Perhaps Mary committed a social gaff but there was something far more important going on. Mary left us with a picture of an act of worship of Jesus with a gift that mattered. We don’t know what Mary was keeping this jar of perfume for, or where she had acquired it from, but it was obviously a very precious possession. It was important to her.
What do we pilgrims consider important and precious to us, and would be be prepared to lay it down at Jesus’ feet in an act of worship? The perfume would have run over Jesus’ feet and the floor, and Mary mopped up any stray liquid with her hair. It was then gone forever, never to be returned to the bottle. There were others gifts that Mary could have offered to Jesus. Perhaps a lamb that was important to her, or a sum of money, her life savings. But in every other possibility, the gift stayed intact.
The Apostle Paul wrote, “And so, dear brothers and sisters, I plead with you to give your bodies to God because of all he has done for you. Let them be a living and holy sacrifice—the kind he will find acceptable. This is truly the way to worship him” (Romans 12:1). We pilgrims lay our lives down at the feet of Jesus, in an act of worship that ties us to Him for ever. The smell of Mary’s perfume would have stayed with Jesus all through the rest of His short life, and in our cases, our lives must stay with Jesus for the rest of our earthly days. According to Paul, by laying down our lives before Jesus, we too are a wonderful fragrance. 2 Corinthians 2:14-15a, “But thank God! He has made us his captives and continues to lead us along in Christ’s triumphal procession. Now he uses us to spread the knowledge of Christ everywhere, like a sweet perfume. Our lives are a Christ-like fragrance rising up to God. …“. By the grace of God we will never change from a pleasant perfume in God’s nostrils, to becoming an unpleasant stench. Will we?
Dear God. In everything we do and say we want to be pleasing to You. For Jesus’ sake. Amen.
