Promoting Equality Through Christian Compassion

Whatever you give is acceptable if you give it eagerly. And give according to what you have, not what you don’t have. Of course, I don’t mean your giving should make life easy for others and hard for yourselves. I only mean that there should be some equality. Right now you have plenty and can help those who are in need. Later, they will have plenty and can share with you when you need it. In this way, things will be equal.”
2 Corinthians 8:12-14 NLT

In this passage of Scripture devoted to encouraging the Corinthians to provide of their resources to help the poor elsewhere, we come across this verse (13) that seems to promote the thought that the burden of living should be shared across the churches. In those days there was no government funding to support those in need, and, quite rightly in my opinion, the churches were encouraged to fill the gap. After a major famine in Judea, people who were unaffected elsewhere made a positive move to help their fellow believers in need. This philosophy of shared resources was there right at the beginning of the early church, as we read in Acts 4:32, “All the believers were united in heart and mind. And they felt that what they owned was not their own, so they shared everything they had”. Two verses on, we read, “There were no needy people among them, because those who owned land or houses would sell them”. But all was not problem-free, as we read in Acts 6:1, “But as the believers rapidly multiplied, there were rumblings of discontent. The Greek-speaking believers complained about the Hebrew-speaking believers, saying that their widows were being discriminated against in the daily distribution of food”. There was obviously in place an early version of a “social security” system amongst Christians, and this principle spread across the early church. 

However, the question remains about the extent to which this process should be implemented. In Galatians 6:2, Paul wrote, “Share each other’s burdens, and in this way obey the law of Christ”. This is something we do with our fellow believers because all of us sometimes face an emergency, financial or otherwise, and need help. So we are called to help each other by sharing the burden. But in Galatians 6:5 we read, “for each one should carry their own load”. Loads and burdens. We should discern the difference when we meet with people, believers or not. To illustrate the difference, I recently met a young man begging outside my local supermarket. He was stopping passers-by to ask for help with something to eat. In conversation, I discovered that he had missed two appointments at the DSS and that his benefits had been stopped as a result. He had the responsibility to carry his “load” in that particular phase of his life, by attending the DSS appointments. But his particular “burden” that day was to find some food, which I was happy to help with. A hard-hearted person might have walked away at this point, leaving him, in their opinion, to the results of his own stupidity, but that is where Christian compassion, helping others less fortunate than ourselves, kicks in. I have been in churches where the leadership has provided funds to help a congregant with a pressing need, such as an unexpected bill for which they had no resources. That was a “burden” we were happy to assist with. Separately, their “load” was already catered for by their own efforts.

In 2 Corinthians 8:13, we read, “Our desire is not that others might be relieved while you are hard pressed, but that there might be equality”. Paul believed that there should be fairness among the Christian community. It didn’t make sense to him that some believers should live on the verge of starvation while others lived to excess. But isn’t that the case globally in the 21st Century? People living in the West have plenty, whereas those living in more deprived areas of the world are always close to starvation. The frustration is that there is sufficient food in the world to feed everyone, but due to distribution inefficiencies and corruption in various governments, people go hungry.

Christian giving is meant to foster fairness and equality, not to create hardship for the giver to ease others’ needs. Paul clarifies that the goal is balancing abundance and need among believers, rather than causing poverty for one group while relieving another. To a large extent, that process has been taken over by our societies with the government of the day taxing those who live in abundance so that the money raised can be given to those living in poverty. Unfortunately, such systems can fail, and there are still people in the UK who rely on food banks and other support because they are unable to supply their basic needs, even with government help.

The word “equality” also applies outside this context of financial giving. Equality in society means ensuring every individual has equal rights, dignity, and access to opportunities, free from discrimination based on factors like race, gender, or religion. Key aspects include fair legal treatment, economic equity, access to education, and healthcare. Greater equality leads to healthier, more stable societies. But such a support system doesn’t come cheap, and the tax burden has been steadily increasing and is expected to reach 38% of the UK GDP by the end of this decade. In the first century, society was much simpler, and the Christian ethos of sharing possessions did much to promote the Gospel and establish the church, in a harsh world where the “haves” survived and often the “have-nots” didn’t. 

We pilgrims are part of a worldwide faith that reaches into just about every society on this planet. But we are also part of a community of friends and family that need help from our resources from time to time. And I’m sure that we do help where we can. And so we must be available to those we know, always willing to share what we have, be it money, love, grace, or whatever. Jesus said, “A new command I give you: love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another” (John 13:34-35). True equality only comes in the way we treat others. God shows no favourites, and we all stand equal before Him. James 2:1, “My brothers and sisters, believers in our glorious Lord Jesus Christ must not show favouritism”. So in our churches and fellowships, we remember that we are all equal before God’s throne, freed from any thoughts of inferiority or superiority. 

Dear Heavenly Father. Please help us, we pray, to reach out and be available to those fellow members in society who are in need, so that we can bring Your love and the resources You have graciously provided for us to help them. In Jesus’ name. Amen. 

Husbands

“In the same way, you husbands must give honour to your wives. Treat your wife with understanding as you live together. She may be weaker than you are, but she is your equal partner in God’s gift of new life. Treat her as you should so your prayers will not be hindered.”
1 Peter 3:7 NLT

In this very important verse giving advice to Christian husbands, Peter starts with “In the same way”.The same way as what? To answer that we must read again the previous verses and review the intent behind Peter’s words. We read about “godly lives”, “a gentle and quiet spirit”, “trust in God”, and obedience. I’m not sure why Peter felt he had to write to wives over six verses but use just one for husbands. But the picture emerges of a relationship, seasoned by love, sacrifice and commitment. The message to the wives also has some important elements within it for the husbands.

A Christian husband, Peter wrote, must treat his wife with honour and understanding, the more so because Peter thinks she is the weaker member of the dual relationship. And he warns that if the husband doesn’t treat his wife properly, his prayer life will be hindered.

But the key message is around the word “equal”. So often in society, we hear about situations where the wife is very much the weaker, or less significant, or even mistreated member of the partnership, but Peter made clear that this should not be the case. In Galatians 3:28, Paul also made the case for equality. “There is no longer Jew or Gentile, slave or free, male and female. For you are all one in Christ Jesus.” We are indeed all equal in God’s sight. In this age of confusion over issues such as gender and feminism, Peter’s age-old advice paints a picture of marriage and life, built and implemented God’s way. 

Biblical marriage is between a man and a woman. There is no other option, in spite of the strident demands of the society in which we live, a stridency that has even persuaded many established churches to abandon what God has decreed and promote a different way. Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve, populated the Garden of Eden. And following God’s way in marriage I’m sure brings a smile to His face, as He watches His dear children behave in accordance with His created model for mankind. As we read in Ecclesiastes 4:12, “A person standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but two can stand back-to-back and conquer. Three are even better, for a triple-braided cord is not easily broken.”

Dear Father God. A marriage rooted and founded in You can never fail. Thank You. Amen.