Causing Hurt

I am not overstating it when I say that the man who caused all the trouble hurt all of you more than he hurt me. Most of you opposed him, and that was punishment enough. Now, however, it is time to forgive and comfort him. Otherwise he may be overcome by discouragement. So I urge you now to reaffirm your love for him.”
2 Corinthians 2:5-8 NLT

It seems that in the Corinthian church was a man who was a bit of a rebel, and caused Paul some pain. What was that all about? It doesn’t appear to be the man who was publicly sinning by his sexual relationship with his stepmother. So there was someone else causing trouble, perhaps by challenging Paul’s authority, as he confessed to having felt some hurt. Even though this man was opposed by most of the believers, it appears that he repented of his rebellion, and Paul encouraged them to forgive, comfort, love, and, I expect, move on. 

Perhaps there had been a bit of a power struggle in Corinth, with this individual trying to assert his authority and dispel Paul’s. But before we say this couldn’t happen in churches today, something occasionally disrupts a leader’s position and causes problems. The Church of Scotland seems prone to that. I know of two ministers who, in recent years, were put into a position by the actions of the church’s governing body, the presbytery, and were forced to leave their posts. The first was a man I much respected and who had been quite successful in building up the church in a village near where I lived, increasing the congregation’s size through the positive nature of his ministry. But he was a “born again” man who was open to the moving of the Holy Spirit in the church and people’s lives, and there were two or three “elders” in the presbytery who were very much against him for this. They undermined him at every opportunity and made his life very difficult. So he left and was appointed to another congregation elsewhere in Scotland. The second was a lady minister who is no longer practising in that role due to ill health, but, again, the presbytery was strongly opposed to change and to any attempts to bring the church closer to the Bible. 

The church I currently attend is better governed than the Church of Scotland, with the local pastor supported by a small local leadership team, and with the knowledge that he has a pastor himself who is a member of the national leadership team. Security and accountability strengthen the leaders and the congregation. 

The Bible describes rebellious people as those who defy authority and reject God’s word. In Old Testament times, there was a king who began well but ultimately disobeyed the Lord’s commands. That king was Saul, and he was instructed by Samuel to completely destroy the Amalekites together with their livestock (1 Samuel 15:3). But Saul didn’t do what he was asked to do, and he spared the Amalekite king and the best of the livestock. The outcome was severe, and we read in 1 Samuel 15:22-23, “But Samuel replied, “What is more pleasing to the Lord: your burnt offerings and sacrifices or your obedience to his voice? Listen! Obedience is better than sacrifice, and submission is better than offering the fat of rams. Rebellion is as sinful as witchcraft, and stubbornness as bad as worshipping idols. So because you have rejected the command of the Lord, he has rejected you as king””. It was all downhill for Saul after that, and the chapter ends “… And the Lord was sorry He had ever made Saul king of Israel”. 

So now to us pilgrims. Are there any rebels amongst us? Are there times when we push back against the teaching we receive, or grumble about the pastor or minister in the company of other rebels and cause dissent and distress? Or perhaps it is a broader issue involving rebellion against our political leaders or other civil authorities. Paul wrote, “Everyone must submit to governing authorities. For all authority comes from God, and those in positions of authority have been placed there by God. So anyone who rebels against authority is rebelling against what God has instituted, and they will be punished” (Romans 13:1-2). The current UK government is turning out to be very unpopular amongst the electorate, and there is much grumbling going on, even amongst God’s people. We must be careful and remember that we are citizens of God’s Kingdom, and of a different spirit. 

It is not always possible to avoid hurting others, no matter how hard we try. There are times when we have to stand for the truth of the Gospel, and this will cause offence and hurt some people. But we leave such times in the hands of the Holy Spirit, who ultimately will bring conviction for sin. We must read the situation well and share the love and grace of Jesus. No one will surely be hurt by that.

Dear Father God. Please help us to share the Word, the Good News about Jesus, sensitively and lovingly, to those around us, never causing hurt unnecessarily. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

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