God’s Household

“For the time has come for judgment, and it must begin with God’s household. And if judgment begins with us, what terrible fate awaits those who have never obeyed God’s Good News? And also, “If the righteous are barely saved, what will happen to godless sinners?” So if you are suffering in a manner that pleases God, keep on doing what is right, and trust your lives to the God who created you, for he will never fail you.”
1 Peter 4:17-19 NLT

Chapter 4 of 1 Peter contains practical instructions and help for a generation suffering greatly for their faith, and who may have been struggling in it all to make the transition from the kingdom of darkness to the kingdom of light. And he was fully aware that for some people it was easier to give up the faith than to continue in it. In the previous few verses, he encouraged those who had suffered, or were still suffering, insults and even “fiery trials” for their faith in Christ, with the thought that they were blessed, and that His glorious Spirit rested upon them. But now, as a gentle warning, he wrote that judgement is waiting. 

But we pilgrims know that judgement is for unbelievers not believers. Revelation 20 contains the account of the Great White Throne and the books being opened. At this event “ … the dead were judged according to what they had done, as recorded in the books”(Revelation 20:12b). That was not the judgement Peter was referring to; he was writing about “God’s household”, which consisted of His children and not the unbelieving majority in that society, who were not God’s children, and who were those who would eventually end up facing that terrible event before the throne, waiting fearfully for the verdict, Guilty! 

To understand the judgement Peter was writing about we need to turn to Hebrews 12:5-7, “And have you forgotten the encouraging words God spoke to you as his children? He said, “My child, don’t make light of the Lord’s discipline, and don’t give up when he corrects you. For the Lord disciplines those he loves, and he punishes each one he accepts as his child.” As you endure this divine discipline, remember that God is treating you as his own children. Who ever heard of a child who is never disciplined by its father?” God disciplines His children, like any earthly father would (or should). Any believer who responds to the Gospel and becomes a child of God, is deluded if they think that they can continue to behave in a sinful way. That’s not how it works. Of course, the Holy Spirit within us will gently help us in our journey through sanctification to glorification, pointing out areas in our lives that need to be cleaned up. But sometimes a stricter approach may be required, hence the reference to “discipline” and “punishment”.

There is also a requirement for Christians to judge what is going on within the church. In 1 Corinthians 5:12-13, Paul wrote, “It isn’t my responsibility to judge outsiders, but it certainly is your responsibility to judge those inside the church who are sinning. God will judge those on the outside; but as the Scriptures say, “You must remove the evil person from among you.”” Jesus also taught about sin against another believer in the church, and we can read what He said in Matthew 18:15-17.

But through all these heavier issues of sin, discipline, punishment and judgement, there must be an overriding influence of love and compassion. Paul gave some advice to the Corinthian church about a man who was causing hurt and trouble to them. And we read what he suggested in 2 Corinthians 2:7-8, “Now, however, it is time to forgive and comfort him. Otherwise he may be overcome by discouragement. So I urge you now to reaffirm your love for him”. 

We pilgrims have many siblings, as we share and live together in God’s household. And as in any family, we, from time to time, will go astray, and follow a rabbit trail into dangerous places. Our siblings, our fellow believers, will gently bring us back before any form of judgement becomes necessary. There is a saying that a bad apple will soon make the whole barrel bad. I have been in a church where that has been a very real danger, but a diligent pastor has brought judgement into the situation, although, sadly, the person concerned has ended up finding fellowship elsewhere. God allows judgement to take place within a church so that unrighteousness can be avoided. And if we end up the focus of the discipline then we must see beyond the shame and pain and instead look up to our Heavenly Father, who cares so much for each one of us.

Dear Father God. Help us we pray, in those times when we have gone astray. For Jesus’ sake. Amen.