“Who may worship in your sanctuary, Lord? Who may enter your presence on your holy hill? … Those who refuse to gossip or harm their neighbours or speak evil of their friends.”
Psalm 15:1, 3 NLT
David continues to list who can, and who can’t, “worship God in His sanctuary”. Verse 2 of Psalm 15 noted that those with “blameless lives” and those who “speak the truth” have the necessary qualifications, but now we launch into territory where David lists specific exclusions that will stop any form of true and sincere God-worship. There will be those of course who venture into the grey border between speaking evil and speaking the truth. Sometimes our minds play tricks and lead us into places where we suddenly find ourselves saying things that we shouldn’t, but a Holy-Spirit sensitised spirit will soon recoil and lead us back to safety.
But what about those people in our churches and fellowships who are hardened gossipers, not realising that they are saying or doing anything wrong? After all, they say, everyone knows this about a certain person, and they are just saying what everyone else is thinking. There is something juicy about a morsel of gossip, as Solomon wrote in Proverbs 18:8 (AMP), “The words of a whisperer (gossip) are like dainty morsels [to be greedily eaten]; They go down into the innermost chambers of the body [to be remembered and mused upon]”. Jesus said something scary, as recorded in Matthew 12:35-36, “A good person produces good things from the treasury of a good heart, and an evil person produces evil things from the treasury of an evil heart. And I tell you this, you must give an account on judgment day for every idle word you speak”. The Apostle James wrote about the role a gossiper’s tongue has in the speaking evil department, “And among all the parts of the body, the tongue is a flame of fire. It is a whole world of wickedness, corrupting your entire body. It can set your whole life on fire, for it is set on fire by hell itself” (James 3:6).
So with that as a background, those, who gossip about another person, or who harm them with their words, or even extend their malice and evil to words about their friends, are in a dangerous place where they exclude themselves from being able to worship in the presence of the Lord. But having said that, who is really free from talking negatively about another person? We all do it. We are all guilty of such a sin. There is something about human beings, that they tend to criticise, judge and speak negatively about another person. Often this is because we see in others negative behaviour that is actually something we are guilty of ourselves, and so we justify our own deficiencies by talking about theirs. We have a tendency to observe how someone else will dress and form an opinion, verbalising it to others. We will judge another person’s behaviour, even illuminating it with the help of carefully chosen Scriptures. But there is no other response to all of this than two words – STOP IT!
We are a redeemed people, free from the punishment for sin, but our humanity, our “old man”, will constantly try and drag us back into a place where we lose our ability to worship the Lord. Before we speak out a negative or evil thought about another person, we must carefully weigh up what we are thinking of saying, in case we are becoming a gossip. And we pray for God’s help in being able to see others as He sees them. We don’t know why a person behaves in the way that they do but God does. And He loves them anyway. Solomon bluntly wrote, “Watch your tongue and keep your mouth shut, and you will stay out of trouble” (Proverbs 21:23). Jesus extended this theme to our thoughts and actions when He said, “Do to others whatever you would like them to do to you. This is the essence of all that is taught in the law and the prophets” (Matthew 7:12).
Dear Father God. Please forgive us for the times when we have been guilty of gossip. Please help us to discern our thoughts and change them before we speak them out, and please help us to see others as You see them. In Jesus’ name. Amen.
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