Prejudice

“Just then his disciples came back. They were shocked to find him talking to a woman, but none of them had the nerve to ask, “What do you want with her?” or “Why are you talking to her?””
John 4:27 NLT

The moment ended. The revelation of who Jesus was faded with the return of the disciples, who were presumably carrying a packed lunch both for themselves and for Jesus. The profound declaration of “I Am the Messiah”, written in lights in the heavens, merged into the every day reality of a natural life in Israel two thousand years ago. The prejudices between Jews and Samaritans reared its ugly head and the negative thoughts of the disciples chased away the purity of faith that was emerging from the shadows. Foremost in their minds was the thought that Jews don’t converse with women and particularly never Samaritan women. 

If we pilgrims were asked today if we have any similar prejudices, what would we say? Do we look down on other people? Do we avoid contact with people we think are inferior to us? Do we only mix with our peer groups, neglecting others who might not have had the same opportunities of education that we have had, or vice versa. The Apostle James had some stern words about prejudice within the church. “My dear brothers and sisters, how can you claim to have faith in our glorious Lord Jesus Christ if you favour some people over others? For example, suppose someone comes into your meeting dressed in fancy clothes and expensive jewelry, and another comes in who is poor and dressed in dirty clothes. If you give special attention and a good seat to the rich person, but you say to the poor one, “You can stand over there, or else sit on the floor”—well, doesn’t this discrimination show that your judgments are guided by evil motives?”“ (James 2:1-4). But I wonder if James was one of the disciples who were prejudiced against the Samaritans that day? He may well have been, but the transforming power of the Holy Spirit on the Day of Pentecost would have dealt with all of that!

A problem in society today is that people seem to have lost respect for their fellow human beings. For example, for some people or groups, unless others buy into their own particular ideology or world view, then they are in danger of being shunned, cancelled, or even worse. So this is an opportunity for us believers to share the truth that all people are considered equal before God. He has no favourites. Romans 2:11, “For God does not show favouritism”. I heard recently of a church men’s outing where, of the 21 attendees, there were 15 different nationalities and ages ranging from 19 to 80. The owner of the restaurant where they had a meal together was most intrigued. But why should he have been surprised – this is what Christians do.

But back to our disciples with Jesus and the Samaritan woman, by Jacob’s well. Jesus knew what they were thinking of course, and the following couple of days spent in the village of Sychar would have been interesting.

Dear Father God. All men and women are equal before You. Thank You for Your love and grace. Amen.


No Favouritism

There will be trouble and calamity for everyone who keeps on doing what is evil—for the Jew first and also for the Gentile. But there will be glory and honour and peace from God for all who do good—for the Jew first and also for the Gentile. For God does not show favouritism.”
‭‭Romans‬ ‭2‬:‭9‬-‭11‬ ‭NLT‬‬

Are there any Christians out there with feelings of insignificancy? Who feel inferior to the other people populating the pews in their church? Who sit in the prayer meeting thinking that they could never pray wonderful prayers like the man over there or the woman sitting next to them? Who look at the great men and women of the church on YouTube, or a televised Sunday service and see ministers who appear to be so much better than them? Well, I have good news for you this morning. “God does not show favouritism“. We must shout this from the rooftops. Write it on Post-It notes and stick them on the bathroom mirror and anywhere else we look at regularly. God doesn’t look at the outward fluff and bubble. He doesn’t care about how many “thee’s” or “thou’s” we include with our prayers. There is a Scripture worth considering in 1 Samuel 16:7, “But the Lord said to Samuel, “Don’t judge by his appearance or height, for I have rejected him. The Lord doesn’t see things the way you see them. People judge by outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart“”. Jesus once said to a group of Pharisees, “… You like to appear righteous in public, but God knows your hearts. What this world honours is detestable in the sight of God“. (Luke 16:15).

In our societies today there is a grading of people, according to attributes such as their financial worth, their skin colour, their education. Where they live. Where they were born. Where they work and what sort of employment they have. Who their ancestors were. Even our religious and spiritual persuasions. A complex mix of parameters that define us in the eyes of our fellow men. But none of these matter at all to God. At a stroke, God demolishes all the characteristics considered important by mankind, and instead looks at our hearts. That inner part of us that constitutes our souls or spirits. Our thoughts and intentions. Because of our position in the societies in which we live, we may or may not have feelings of inferiority or superiority. Misplaced feelings of pride and righteousness are perhaps in there as well. But all these things matter not at all to God. In looking at our hearts, what is He looking for? 

Perhaps a good place to start is with Romans 12:2, “Don’t copy the behaviour and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect”. By steeping ourselves in God’s Word we will find out what He finds “good and pleasing and perfect”. We will find out what His will is for us. And we will develop a relationship, strong and enduring, with our loving Heavenly Parent. 

God doesn’t favour any one of His children more than another. We all have access to His Heavenly home. He listens to all our prayers, regardless of how simple or complex they are. In fact, He knows what we are about to pray before we even utter a word. He nurtures us. He leads and guides us. He has an individual plan worked out for each one of us. And each plan is different, tailor made just for us. We mustn’t forget as well, that He lives within us by His Spirit. When all these factors are added together we find that it doesn’t really matter what those worldly people around us think of us. What matters is what God thinks. And He is with us every day, every hour, every minute, cheering us on. Helping us on our journey through life’s minefields. And one day we will find ourselves in a new home. There’s no favouritism there either.

Father God. As we stand before You, feeling Your penetrating gaze pass over our hearts, we pray for forgiveness for all the wrongs and other sins You find there. And we thank You for Your grace and mercy. Amen.

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