Brothers

“Jesus told him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one can come to the Father except through me. If you had really known me, you would know who my Father is. From now on, you do know him and have seen him!” Philip said, “Lord, show us the Father, and we will be satisfied.””
John 14:6-8 NLT

How many times have we looked at a man and a boy, perhaps playing together, kicking a ball around. And then we’re struck by the similarities between them. The same nose, or an identical laugh. Mannerisms that show those around them that they are related. An expression often applied to someone is that they are a “chip off the old block”, meaning that a man is behaving in a way similar to his father, or a woman to her mother. We of course, in these enlightened days, know all about genetics and hereditary factors and understand the process, well, the scientists think they do. Such parent/child similarities can be very positive but there are also negatives, in that a child can take on their parents’ bad characteristics as well.

There are people who blame their proclivities to sin on their parents, or grandparents. And some Christians would perhaps feel relieved of personal responsibilities when they read Exodus 20:5, “You must not bow down to them or worship them, for I, the Lord your God, am a jealous God who will not tolerate your affection for any other gods. I lay the sins of the parents upon their children; the entire family is affected—even children in the third and fourth generations of those who reject me“. A generational curse can be used as an excuse. But if we dig deeper we find that this was a specific warning from God to the nation of Israel over idolatry and in any case, we know that sinful behaviour is dealt with through repentance. Blaming our parents for our sin is no excuse before God. Paul wrote in Ephesians 4:21-24, “Since you have heard about Jesus and have learned the truth that comes from him, throw off your old sinful nature and your former way of life, which is corrupted by lust and deception. Instead, let the Spirit renew your thoughts and attitudes. Put on your new nature, created to be like God—truly righteous and holy”.

Well, Jesus said that by knowing Him, His disciples would know His Father in Heaven. One distinction between Jesus and any other child is that there were no bad traits. There was no sin in Jesus that could then be attributed to Father God Himself. We of course know and believe that God is good. And that goodness was, and is, displayed through His Son Jesus. Everything Jesus did was 100% in line with His Father’s wishes, and God’s goodness and mercy was displayed everywhere Jesus went. In John 10:32, we read, “Jesus said, “At my Father’s direction I have done many good works. For which one are you going to stone me”“? There were of course times when Jesus confronted and exposed the sinful attitudes and behaviour of some He encountered, particularly the Pharisees. But His anger with them was never sinful.

We pilgrims are children of God. So, do we display the characteristics of our Heavenly Father? Would someone observing us see anything of God in us? Paul wrote, “For all who are led by the Spirit of God are children of God. So you have not received a spirit that makes you fearful slaves. Instead, you received God’s Spirit when he adopted you as his own children. Now we call him, “Abba, Father.” For his Spirit joins with our spirit to affirm that we are God’s children. And since we are his children, we are his heirs. In fact, together with Christ we are heirs of God’s glory. But if we are to share his glory, we must also share his suffering” (Romans 8:14-17). In 1 John 3:9 we read, “Those who have been born into God’s family do not make a practice of sinning, because God’s life is in them. So they can’t keep on sinning, because they are children of God”. And a last word from Romans 8:29, “For God knew his people in advance, and he chose them to become like his Son, so that his Son would be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters”.

Do people know by the way we live and what we say and do, that we are children of God? And do they see Jesus, our elder Brother, in our family traits? Hmmm…

Father God. We do indeed call out “Abba, Father” because that is who You are. We praise You today. Amen.

“After this, Jesus traveled around Galilee. He wanted to stay out of Judea, where the Jewish leaders were plotting his death. But soon it was time for the Jewish Festival of Shelters, and Jesus’ brothers said to him, “Leave here and go to Judea, where your followers can see your miracles! You can’t become famous if you hide like this! If you can do such wonderful things, show yourself to the world!” For even his brothers didn’t believe in him.”
John 7:1-5 NLT

It is said that we can choose our friends but not our family. Jesus’ brothers, we are told, didn’t believe in Him, a sad situation, because we would have expected Him to have some family support. Jesus must have felt very alone, because, apart from a select few of His closest disciples, He was generally rejected. And that in spite of all His miracles and His Words of eternal life. Sarcastically, Jesus’ brothers suggested that He went to Judaea and “show [Himself] to the world”. That is, they said, “If [He] can do such wonderful things”.

The Jewish Feast of Tabernacles was one of the three most important events in the Jewish calendar, and one in which all the males were commanded to go to celebrate the release of the Jewish slaves from Egypt. It took place in Jerusalem, and lasted for seven days, with everyone living in tents. Jerusalem would have been heaving with so many people and, to His sarcastic brothers, this would have been the ideal time where Jesus would have achieved the maximum audience to hear His message. Some theologians think that Jesus was born about the time of this Feast, which took place somewhere around the end of September or beginning of October, and not the December date we use to celebrate His birth. Other theologians claim that Jesus’ Second Coming will happen during the Feast of Tabernacles. But in it all the Feast of Tabernacles was important to the Jewish faith.

But, in deciding not to attend the Feast, Jesus was prioritising His mission and ministry over expectations voiced by others. There was, for Him, a real risk in attending Jerusalem at that time, because the Jewish leaders were looking out for Him, potentially to do Him harm, even, as John recorded, that they were “plotting His death”.

I’m sure that we pilgrims have experienced animosity, ridicule and even persecution from those nearest and dearest in our families, and particularly when we first made a decision to follow Jesus. But there is only one way into Heaven. Speaking to His disciple Thomas, ”Jesus told him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one can come to the Father except through me” (John 14:6). We pilgrims take the long view, caring more about where we will spend eternity than the sensitivities of our friends and families. Of course, we pray for our brothers and sisters and others in our families, hoping that they too will come to believe in Jesus. But it is a hard place, finding ourselves in a lonely place in our families, ostracised for our belief in Jesus. But in our distress, we find comfort from our loving Heavenly Father. Every time we pray, there are at least three others present – God, the Father, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit. Who can ever want for me?

Dear Father God. We know that in You we are never alone. You are always by our sides, just a thought and prayer away. Thank You. Amen.

Father and Son

Jesus and His brothers