“Don’t tear apart the work of God over what you eat. Remember, all foods are acceptable, but it is wrong to eat something if it makes another person stumble. It is better not to eat meat or drink wine or do anything else if it might cause another believer to stumble.”
Romans 14:20-21 NLT
Paul is still writing about acceptable foods but he widens the context. His priority for believers is for them to behave in such a way that they don’t “cause another believer to stumble”. He used the word “stumble” three times in this chapter, and it relates well to the idea of a believer walking through life, living out his or her faith, often in difficult circumstances, and then finding an obstacle in their path that causes them to “stumble”.
In modern times, what causes us pilgrims to “stumble”? To come across something that makes us feel a bit unsteady or wobbly. There is much that challenges us in the secular societies and cultures in which so many of us live. It is often difficult to hold fast to our faiths when even the denominations to which we belong to adopt policies that perhaps we feel are a bit suspect, or that don’t sit easily with us, appearing to be the thin end of a wedge of compromise. Sometimes it is far from easy being a Christian.
Much strength is found in the Christian life by being with fellow believers walking the same path. Taking the same journey. I often wonder how Christians I have met, and still know, persist in saying that they don’t have to go to church to be a Christian. They maintain that they can hold fast to their faith on their own, thank you very much! The writer of the Hebrews epistle recorded the following, “Let us think of ways to motivate one another to acts of love and good works. And let us not neglect our meeting together, as some people do, but encourage one another, especially now that the day of his return is drawing near” (Hebrews 10:24-25). Throughout the New Testament there are references to the “one another’s”. It was never intended that Christians should journey alone.
But as we all journey together, it is important that we help each other, encouraging those who are weaker in the faith as we go along. They will be finding the journey hard enough. They will have been through times when they think that it would be easier to give up. And the last thing they will need is to see a brother or sister doing something that they think is wrong. Paul widened the scope away from food that might have been offered to idols, first to wine, and then he included “anything else”. It’s a responsibility on us pilgrims that our conduct is beyond reproach. We must not engage in behaviour that will upset fellow Christians. Paul graphically uses the phrase, “don’t tear apart the work of God”. Our behaviour is that important. And so we pray constantly, both for ourselves and for our fellow believers. We can’t journey through life without God being there with us.
Dear God. Thank You for Your presence with us as we walk through the highways and byways of life on Planet Earth. We can’t do it without You! Amen.
